The Unsaid Words - Ankahe Lafj

अनकहे लफ़्ज़...

The Unsaid Words....the feelings that our loving ones want to tell us something, but at the same time want us to understand what they want to say...even when they just don't say it....when they want us to know those unsaid words, the incomplete sentences...

Its really a beautiful situation, when you are in a relation....  These lines are about the same situation,

the feelings of those moments...

Here is it...  please don't forget to share your views.....

Life - Teaching a New Lesson Every Moment

Whatever goal you set for yourself, make it a priority to accomplish it, no matter what happens...... Don't be discouraged if you fall short though, because it is the effort  that is the important part of the whole story. Make a habit of motivation; starting small and working yourself up to larger things...

Come on... Just move ahead... give your spirit a challenge, even the smallest will do a lot.... 

From the pages of 'Safar Spirit To Move Ahead'

- Alok Upadhayay

Life - Teaching A New Lesson Every Moment

"Both failure & success are never permanent; they are only temporary states of affairs. We should never let minor setbacks define our life; it is how most of us react to failure that will frame our existence. Never allow disappointments to harden our spirit because it will only make us to limit our enjoyment of success."

From The Pages of 'Safar-Spirit To Move Ahead'

- Alok Upadhayay

Life - Teaching New Lesson Every Moment

बिखरे पन्नों में देखो गुज़रे लम्हों की..

कि एक मुकम्मल दास्तां है उन अधूरे लफ्ज़ों में...


Most of the times we do somethings just to have some fun or just because none of the good reason, without thinking why ? We never ask, what will be its chain reaction ?? We never even try to consider if it will put some impact on your life as well as those who are with you ?? We never try to think what will happen next ?

Even I do this sometimes....but at the same time I have faced the results. I remember those thoughts very well  -- "Oh !!  Come on Alok, nothing is going to happen ... who cares... things come and go....  its just for fun... its just because I want so...  its just a little thing...  nothing serious......" But now when I think about it seriously I can easily see that how those 'n' no. of small things have brought their results....
I just think..  why it is too hard to understand??  OR  it is just because we don't want to understand it...
The only thing is what counts the most ?? We always have 2 options and every time we need to select one...we need to decide what is more important ??
In my early days my Maa always used to tell me  - Son ! Whenever you face such a situation, just ask to yourself, what is the thing that can be avoided.. for eg. you have got Rs. 100, now its you who has to decide either you want to go for a movie, that has just released or you want to buy a Pen that you want to have.
Believe me... even now, no matter the situation is easy one or complicated one... this statement helps me as panacea. 

What I have got from life is that, the smallest things in life are the ones that count the most. The small things can be important, much more important than you realize. A decision that could change your future you may see as nothing special. It may be as basic as choosing paper or plastic at the grocery store, sharing your thoughts at Facebook our just having a healthy conversation with your close ones. It could be that simple. The smallest decisions could have the biggest impact. We do not think about it at the time, but they have huge potential for our lives. When you look back in your life, you can see it is true.

Independence Day Special - Celebrating 64 Glorious Years of Independence

हौसला वो जो मुट्ठी में तूफ़ान भर ले,

जज़्बा वो, जो कदमों में सारा जहाँ कर दे,

फैसले वो नहीं जो,ज़िन्दगी की रजामंदी के मोहताज़ हो,

फैसला वो लो, जो ज़िन्दगी को भी, तेरे फैसलों का मोहताज़ कर दे.

- "Prince" Alok Upadhayay 

AAZADI-Prem ki, Sanskar ki, Aadar ki,  Hausalo ki, Vishwaas ki, Lakshay ki

May India soar high in the realm of Freedom.

Today we are celebrating 64 glorious years of Independence.  As we march toward a bright future.

 Join us in celebrating the glorious journey of Vision 2020.

जंग-ए-आज़ादी के, बहादुरों को सलाम... 
 वतन पर मर मिटे जो, उन शहीदों को सलाम,
  हिंद की सरहद पर जो मिट गए हँसते - हँसते
    हिंद के उन सपूतों को हमारा सलाम...
                                   ----  @lok Kumar Upadhayay
  

तन्हा यादें

वो कहते थे, जुदाई का इश्क में अपना ही असर है,
आज जो तुझसे जुदा हुआ तो एहसास हुआ....

                               -- आलोक कुमार उपाध्याय 

Its all I have to say today...

Here is something I have written... Its the result of the those moments when I was almost lost in the situation... people say.. I am missin' someone....   but for me.. its the another face of the coin... I like to say.. I am enjoying some of the beautiful moments spent in my life.... 

तन्हा यादें ( In th sweet memories of yours) by @lok Kumar Upadhayay

 

Women - A Beautiful Gift to Mankind from the God

उसने पुछा..

माँ, सुता, बहन, पत्नी, हर रूप में हूँ मैं, 

तुम्हारी ज़िन्दगी के हर लम्हे में हूँ मैं,

पर कभी ये तो बताओ, क्यों हूँ मैं ???

हम बस इतना ही कह पाए...

मेरी दुनिया, मेरे लम्हों में ग़र तू ना होती, 

तो मेरी साँसों को भी ज़िन्दगी से मोहब्बत ना होती...
           -- आलोक कुमार उपाध्याय...

Women, the most beautiful and admirable creation of the almighty and his gift to the mankind. 

Hereby, I want to say thanks and show my gratitude to all the known and unknown women for all they did for mankind as Mother, Sister, Friend, Love, Peer... and all the other ways, they have been making the life on this earth beautiful. A woman plays an all-enveloping character of a mother, daughter, wife and sister as a friend, nurturer, guide and partner from time to time. Indeed a woman’s essence lies in her innate ability to care, love and sacrifice for the other. Emotional and vulnerable, sometimes erratic, sometimes serene, she displays a wonderful range of emotions from being patient to being extremely courageous in times of crisis. What I love most about women is the perfect mix. The ultimate sensuality combined with nurturing, the cute naughtiness combined with caring, the vivacity coupled with quiet understanding.

Once I read some beautiful lines about women...you must have read it but still...I would like to share those lines...

"A women.. you can feel her in each and every part of your life in different ways....

Her Blessings in form of Grandmother, her Divinity as a Mother, her Passion in form of Beloved, her Dedication as a Wife, her Warmth, as a friend, her Care as a Sister.."

I am thankful to the God for showering his blessing as My Honorable Granny--who loves me alot.....My Respectable Maa --who has given me this wonderful life and making me efficient enough sometimes by love and being soft, sometimes by being tough and scolding me and any other way she felt the best for me......My Dear Aunts --we are favorite of each other.....My Adorable Cousins--angles from heaven for me...My Best Friend - the special one, who is inspiration to all my words and have made my life beautiful and has always been with me, each and every moment to share all my joy and grief and to hold me (I know u r there).... My respectable Teachers and My dear friends...

I have been experiencing my life in a wonderful way with the above.

Including all the known and unknown women, this post is specially dedicated to My Maa and the One…who has influenced my life the most.

I have spent so many moments with my Maa and my best friend and what I can say from my inner heart with my experience, for them is......It's really admirable how they are so wonderfully giving, caring and loving. The love, which is unconditional and forever. I have also experience that no matter how much they been by hurt by someone but once they forgive, they really forget. They don’t dig out the heavy artillery, even when they have the best opportunities to do so.I can say this because I have got this experience. I am short tempered. Sometimes in anger I badly hurt the other party... but thanks to them, who rather than showing attitude, help me and support me by holding me to overcome.

I have experienced it so lovely, both of them manage to hear me out for hours, no matter whenever I call or say.. I am missing you and want to talk to you...I hardly remember, if she has ever passed judgments on my creations or had said that, Alok, you are wrong. Even if I was wrong or had behaved like the worst jerk in the world (I confess, sometimes I really do). Whenever I have asked for opinion about my decisions, she gave it without managing to make me feel worm.

I have felt there smile, the real smile, no pretenses, the smiles from heart and the words from her eye, a loving smile, really the complete one. It suits her.. The smile, I can easily read saying "My dear, Whatever you are, however you are, I love you."

I have never been able enough to understand the unsaid.. to know the unspoken.. I tried alot, but I hardly remember the single incident I have understood that, what she want me to understand without saying... But she never complained..AM I RIGHT??? (This question is for the one.. who know me, what am I).

All I can say in brief is - 

Its only a heart of a woman, which makes her so charming, so sharing, so naughty and so melodious like anything. She is the live image of tenderness, care, and wisdom. No matter what happens.. she is always adorable and admirable. She is always beautiful like butterflies on flowers....

On this day. I want to say THANK YOU to all of you... for making the life on this earth so beautiful..... 

Never Say Good Bye ...

Dear friends,

In our life, sometimes the moments come, when we need to get apart form someone we love, care for and think about the most...

Much more than any thing else in our life..

The one.. who comes to your life and slowly becomes so important that, you find each and every moment with him/her as the most beautiful moments blessed by the God for you..

The one.. without him/her you fill each and every part of your life incomplete, and when the moment comes that you need to say .. OK My dear.. we will be together soon...  and you need to have a smile on your face even after the pain of getting apart.. it becomes the most painful...but most adorable as well as one of the most beautiful moments of your life...

Because.. in those few moments.. you just need to see in his/her eyes...and you will find the love you had never experiences before..

You just need to hug.. and you will feel that its the most beautiful thing in your life you could do..

In those moments.. we get a lot of thoughts..

We want to say so many things.. but something happens.. that just stops us to say... but its our expressions.. our touch.. which say all those unsaid words..

Here... I have just tried to write the feeling of those moments...please go through it.. and share your views...

The Pain That I Feel Within...

दर्द(The Pain of losing you)

What happens when you are just on the verge of holding your goal in your own hands and suddenly all the ways seems to be vanishing...

When you feel that the pain of your past is ruining up the happiness of your present..

When you feel that you have hurt someone you love the most..

This poem is just an attempt to express those painful moments... when the above happening happen...

 

हवा हूँ मैं

The future is here…

I never think of the future. It comes soon enough.
                                                                    --- Albert Einstein.


whenever I see people worried about what happened about past and even more worried about there future, I remember a statement, a statement which my mother always used to say to me when I was a kid. The statement was - My son, don't worry about your past and future. Think about present. If you will make your present better, your past and future, both will be beautiful and glorious.

Why Maa?? I used to ask this question again and again.
"Because, each and every passing moment of present is your past and every next moment is your future. So, if you change the present, you are going to change your past as well as future."
And till now, whenever she feels that I am worried about any happening or I am thinking a lot about my future, I listen the above statement and her words helping me to get out of worries.
It is shlok of 'Shri Bhagvada Geeta' a spiritual book of Hinduism teaching us to work without worrying about future, the result...
No prizes for guessing which one!
In Devnagari:
कर्मण्ये वाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचना
कर्मफलेह्तुर भुरमा ते संगोस्त्वकर्मानी॥
च २, ४७

In English transliteration:

Karmanye vadhikaraste ma phaleshu kadachna

Karmaphalehtur bhurma te sangostvakarmani.

Ch. 2, 47

Many of us are so obsessed with planning for the future that we forget that we need to live now, today, in the present moment. The reality of life is that we need to keep the future in mind when enjoying the wonders of life today, but that does not imply that we have to be so wary that the future looks draconian, monstrous and terrifying. Getting the right mix of an enjoyable present, reminiscing the beautiful past and carefully nurturing the future is a challenge for every human being.

The present is where we are and the past will remain a memory but it is the future that will embrace us soon and so gives us opportunities to prepare for that meeting. In the present, we have to go ahead and do what is most opportune, appropriate and live up to our potential. Most times though we let our past overshadow our present and makes us so cautious that we lose our risk taking ability, our capacity to enjoy the present and we spend more time protecting ourselves from our imaginary eventualities. The future too beckons us with hope and so many possibilities, yet in the present moment we are fearful of losing that and so we plan to grab and grasp as much as we can now in the fond hope that we shall enjoy the fruits of our prudence in the future. Alas, when the future comes it becomes the present and we are still grabbing and grasping rather than letting go and enjoying the delights that come to our door step daily.
It is apt here to recollect the story of a man who was given a boon to keep for himself all the land that he could lay claim on by running around it and marking it in a 24 hour period. While he started with moderate aspirations, greed soon overcame him and he went further and further trying to mark out as much as he could. In the end he had tire himself so much that no sooner he arrived at the starting point he collapsed and died, and all he occupied when he was buried was the coffin space. If we pause at this moment and put ourselves in that mans shoes, we will soon realize that we too are almost following a similar path craving for more, physically and emotionally draining ourselves in the pursuit of more and suddenly it might strike you that you cannot outpace the future!
Yes it is a profound realization that the future will be here soon enough and then are we ready to say yes it is time I made the best of the present and let the future take care of itself? The key is to pace yourself in the pursuit of happiness, for that is what we all crave; decide when you are going to enjoy the fruit of your labor for as they say the present is gift from God that we need to unwrap and savor daily.

Remember: 

"The best thing about the future is that it comes only one day at a time.” Abraham Lincoln

Try these:

1. Make a list of 5 things that you feel will give you the security for the future. Be specific about it. Don’t just say lots of money, good health, happy family etc. None of these are specific. Instead put a figure that is in your opinion reasonable savings for your standard of living. Outline how you propose to keep fit in terms of weigh, diet etc.

2. If you got a windfall of Rs.1,00,000 how will you utilize it? This will give you a clue as to your mental make up about how secure you feel about your present and future. How much is the saving your plan to do. Are you going to indulge in the one passion that you were longing to do for a long time? How much will you spent to celebrate this windfall?

Sources:- Internet and Magazines

Life - Teaching A New Lesson Every Moment

हम तो बस ये ही मानते रहे,

जिंदगी बस हमसे ही ख़फ़ा है,

निकल कर दुनिया के बाज़ार में,

देखे जो रंग जिन्दगी के,

तो ये एहसास हुआ....

इस सफ़र में हमराही और भी हैं......

-- आलोक

Whenever we face pain and trouble in our life, we think individually," the most painful person in this world. I am the one who has got all the sorrows and pain. I have got all the bad luck ......."and so on. Its not true. I agree that-"the bearer knows,what the pain it." At that time our pain seems to be worst than all.

Why I am telling this to you?

We all know it. Don't we? 

The reason behind sharing this matter here is that, in spite of having all these thoughts we ignore them.

The reason behind sharing this matter here is the pain of a person who is an ex-employee of an EMBASSY but now he is an auto-rickshaw driver.

Yes,  

It happened to me this evening when I was returning to Delhi from Ghaziabaad after visiting Career Launcher.

I hired auto from Lal Kuan, Ghaziabaad.

Its a saying that,"your words speak about you."

The same happened at that time. The way he was talking made me surprised, because during my stay of two years in Ghaziabaad I had never heard such a polite and soft voice from an auto driver. Now he had got my attention. I looked at him now. His clothes were saying that he is not an auto driver. He must be having some problems that made him to do so.

I became sure about it when he asked," भाई साहब, सेक्टर - 62 का किराया क्या है?"

I tried to stop my eagerness to know about him and the consequences that made him to do so by saying to myself,"No Alok, you have no right to peep into personal life of any person."

But finally I said,"आप ऑटो ड्राईवर तो नहीं लगते!"

"नए हो?"

And thus he started his story.I am writing it very briefly here.

His name was Rakesh. He was from Delhi and was an employee in an EMBASSY. As the Ambassador keep on changing every three year and staff is also changed with him; he{Rakesh} lost his job. He was a graduate. He had applied for various jobs but failed to get the job which he deserve. Now after being influenced by his relatives he is working as an auto rickshaw driver.

I was shocked after listening his story. I felt that pain within me, I don't know why? I was shocked to see this that where life and destiny has thrown him.

Really Life is something we can never predict about. There is no probability of pain and happiness in life....

Its really a question which has no solution.

It is life which always teaches us a new lesson each and every moment. The question is, "Are we learning it?"

OK FRIENDS...

I will be here again with a new experience....