I Miss You...

 शाम के बाद

जब भी आती है तेरी याद कभी शाम के बाद

और बढ़ जाती है अफसुर्दा-दिली शाम के बाद

अब इरादों पे भरोसा है ना तौबा पे यकीं

मुझ को ले जाये कहाँ तश्ना-लबी शाम के बाद

यूँ तो हर लम्हा तेरी याद का बोझल गुज़रा

दिल को महसूस हु‌ई तेरी कमी शाम के बाद

यूँ तो कुछ शाम से पहले भी उदासी थी 'अदीब'

अब तो कुछ और बढ़ी दिल की लगी शाम के बाद....

~अदीब

Life-Teaching A New Lesson Every Moment

It is always better to be honest with your suspicions than to blind yourself with a false sense of certainty.  There is no harm in admitting doubt; it is the first step in reaching the truth. So, just open yourself up and admit you really don't know and believe me the road ahead will be much easier...

- Alok Upadhayay

Distances - If It Could Just Vanish

तेरी यादों ने समेटा आगोश में अपने आज, तो एहसास हुआ...
गोया वो गुज़रा ज़माना लौट आया....
- Alok Upadhayay


25 Jan 2011
Sitting in the sun of January, enjoying winters of Noida with ice-cream in TGIP, Noida, I was just filling like if I could make this day more beautiful... 
Suddenly a boy came to me, "Bhaiyaa, Gulaab le lo.....(Brother, will you please buy some roses from me...)."
Its common thing in Sec 18 Noida, one can easily find kids selling roses over there.
" Kiske Liye ?...(For whom?)"
"Jo aane waale hai..(The one you are waiting for...)."
He said in such a sweet way that I couldn't deny. He had 7 roses and I bought all of them....
He got a smile over his face, he giggled, said thank you and went away....
I just kept on watching him until he vanished in the crowd....
I just thought, even he has a hope that someone will come to whom I can offer these beautiful roses.
I wish if I could tell him that no one will ever come.... the one who could come has already gone...
That kid made to think about those days when I had you for these flowers .... I wish if I could change it... I wish if I could bring those days back...
I wish if....

The Unsaid Words - Ankahe Lafj

अनकहे लफ़्ज़...

The Unsaid Words....the feelings that our loving ones want to tell us something, but at the same time want us to understand what they want to say...even when they just don't say it....when they want us to know those unsaid words, the incomplete sentences...

Its really a beautiful situation, when you are in a relation....  These lines are about the same situation,

the feelings of those moments...

Here is it...  please don't forget to share your views.....

तन्हा यादें

वो कहते थे, जुदाई का इश्क में अपना ही असर है,
आज जो तुझसे जुदा हुआ तो एहसास हुआ....

                               -- आलोक कुमार उपाध्याय 

Its all I have to say today...

Here is something I have written... Its the result of the those moments when I was almost lost in the situation... people say.. I am missin' someone....   but for me.. its the another face of the coin... I like to say.. I am enjoying some of the beautiful moments spent in my life.... 

तन्हा यादें ( In th sweet memories of yours) by @lok Kumar Upadhayay

 

Women - A Beautiful Gift to Mankind from the God

उसने पुछा..

माँ, सुता, बहन, पत्नी, हर रूप में हूँ मैं, 

तुम्हारी ज़िन्दगी के हर लम्हे में हूँ मैं,

पर कभी ये तो बताओ, क्यों हूँ मैं ???

हम बस इतना ही कह पाए...

मेरी दुनिया, मेरे लम्हों में ग़र तू ना होती, 

तो मेरी साँसों को भी ज़िन्दगी से मोहब्बत ना होती...
           -- आलोक कुमार उपाध्याय...

Women, the most beautiful and admirable creation of the almighty and his gift to the mankind. 

Hereby, I want to say thanks and show my gratitude to all the known and unknown women for all they did for mankind as Mother, Sister, Friend, Love, Peer... and all the other ways, they have been making the life on this earth beautiful. A woman plays an all-enveloping character of a mother, daughter, wife and sister as a friend, nurturer, guide and partner from time to time. Indeed a woman’s essence lies in her innate ability to care, love and sacrifice for the other. Emotional and vulnerable, sometimes erratic, sometimes serene, she displays a wonderful range of emotions from being patient to being extremely courageous in times of crisis. What I love most about women is the perfect mix. The ultimate sensuality combined with nurturing, the cute naughtiness combined with caring, the vivacity coupled with quiet understanding.

Once I read some beautiful lines about women...you must have read it but still...I would like to share those lines...

"A women.. you can feel her in each and every part of your life in different ways....

Her Blessings in form of Grandmother, her Divinity as a Mother, her Passion in form of Beloved, her Dedication as a Wife, her Warmth, as a friend, her Care as a Sister.."

I am thankful to the God for showering his blessing as My Honorable Granny--who loves me alot.....My Respectable Maa --who has given me this wonderful life and making me efficient enough sometimes by love and being soft, sometimes by being tough and scolding me and any other way she felt the best for me......My Dear Aunts --we are favorite of each other.....My Adorable Cousins--angles from heaven for me...My Best Friend - the special one, who is inspiration to all my words and have made my life beautiful and has always been with me, each and every moment to share all my joy and grief and to hold me (I know u r there).... My respectable Teachers and My dear friends...

I have been experiencing my life in a wonderful way with the above.

Including all the known and unknown women, this post is specially dedicated to My Maa and the One…who has influenced my life the most.

I have spent so many moments with my Maa and my best friend and what I can say from my inner heart with my experience, for them is......It's really admirable how they are so wonderfully giving, caring and loving. The love, which is unconditional and forever. I have also experience that no matter how much they been by hurt by someone but once they forgive, they really forget. They don’t dig out the heavy artillery, even when they have the best opportunities to do so.I can say this because I have got this experience. I am short tempered. Sometimes in anger I badly hurt the other party... but thanks to them, who rather than showing attitude, help me and support me by holding me to overcome.

I have experienced it so lovely, both of them manage to hear me out for hours, no matter whenever I call or say.. I am missing you and want to talk to you...I hardly remember, if she has ever passed judgments on my creations or had said that, Alok, you are wrong. Even if I was wrong or had behaved like the worst jerk in the world (I confess, sometimes I really do). Whenever I have asked for opinion about my decisions, she gave it without managing to make me feel worm.

I have felt there smile, the real smile, no pretenses, the smiles from heart and the words from her eye, a loving smile, really the complete one. It suits her.. The smile, I can easily read saying "My dear, Whatever you are, however you are, I love you."

I have never been able enough to understand the unsaid.. to know the unspoken.. I tried alot, but I hardly remember the single incident I have understood that, what she want me to understand without saying... But she never complained..AM I RIGHT??? (This question is for the one.. who know me, what am I).

All I can say in brief is - 

Its only a heart of a woman, which makes her so charming, so sharing, so naughty and so melodious like anything. She is the live image of tenderness, care, and wisdom. No matter what happens.. she is always adorable and admirable. She is always beautiful like butterflies on flowers....

On this day. I want to say THANK YOU to all of you... for making the life on this earth so beautiful..... 

Never Say Good Bye ...

Dear friends,

In our life, sometimes the moments come, when we need to get apart form someone we love, care for and think about the most...

Much more than any thing else in our life..

The one.. who comes to your life and slowly becomes so important that, you find each and every moment with him/her as the most beautiful moments blessed by the God for you..

The one.. without him/her you fill each and every part of your life incomplete, and when the moment comes that you need to say .. OK My dear.. we will be together soon...  and you need to have a smile on your face even after the pain of getting apart.. it becomes the most painful...but most adorable as well as one of the most beautiful moments of your life...

Because.. in those few moments.. you just need to see in his/her eyes...and you will find the love you had never experiences before..

You just need to hug.. and you will feel that its the most beautiful thing in your life you could do..

In those moments.. we get a lot of thoughts..

We want to say so many things.. but something happens.. that just stops us to say... but its our expressions.. our touch.. which say all those unsaid words..

Here... I have just tried to write the feeling of those moments...please go through it.. and share your views...

गुज़ारिश

Dear Friends,

I had spent a beautiful day... It was all full of a lot of fun, joy accompanied with a lot of care, love and affection..  and indeed I was enjoying a beautiful evening. I was sitting in a cafeteria when I wrote the following lines for someone...for the day spent.. for those wonderful moments... and a lot more...

Please go through it....and don't forget to share your views....

The Pain That I Feel Within...

दर्द(The Pain of losing you)

What happens when you are just on the verge of holding your goal in your own hands and suddenly all the ways seems to be vanishing...

When you feel that the pain of your past is ruining up the happiness of your present..

When you feel that you have hurt someone you love the most..

This poem is just an attempt to express those painful moments... when the above happening happen...

 

Wish You A Very Happy and Prosperous Diwali

Hope this Diwali Touches your Life with
Brightness and Gaiety
Making them an Eternal Part of Your Life

As the candlelight flame,
Ur life may always be happiness' claim;
As the mountain high,
U move without sigh;
like the white linen flair,
Purity is always an affair;
As sunshine creates morning glory,
fragrance fills years as flory;

with the immaculate eternal smile,
attached to u mile after mile;
All darkness is far away,
As light is on its way;
Wish all of u a very happy diwali.

 

Regards

Alok  Kumar Upadhyay

&
Family

Some Unsaid Wishes...

Anger! The Worst Enemy of Mankind

कुछ  पल  हैं  जो साथ हैं.....कुछ साँसे हैं जो हमराह हैं,

फिर कुछ रिश्ते ऐसे बनाओ.....जो यादगार बन जाएँ,

उनके लिए जो आज नहीं....पर कल के सुप्रभात हैं.

                                              --  Sunil Upadhyay

These are the lines which often come to my thoughts whenever I see people fighting or quarreling.

I often think why we fight?

What do we get after fighting or quarrelling?

Is there any physical, emotional, social or economical benefit of it?

Even I myself lose my control over myself very easily. But after that when I calm down, I just say to myself…

“Alok! Control kar leta to kya hota?”

The answer I get is- “sab kuch kahi jyada acha hota.”

Anger ruins everything. I don’t say that anger is bad, it is good only if we know when, where and in what manner we have to be aggressive.

Anger is like soft drink, which should be served softly. A little anger with light voice and some love in it work like magic. It can perform miracle. I have tried it. It is difficult but nothing is impossible. My teacher had taught me once; anger is that weapon which should never be used. It is like a sword, which you just need to take out from scabbard, show it and then put it back. Never use it. I tried to follow it but never followed 100%.

Have you ever thought why we get angry?

In maximum cases we get angry due to our own mistakes and then we blame others by getting angry. The thing which makes us angry most of times is our ego……. Yes…ego. ‘I can never be wrong. I am right. If I said then I want it done.” Even when it’s our entire fault we never accept it easily and the result is anger then quarrel then fight and if it continues then one of both parties have to go to hospital and the other to jail.

So, what we got???

Nothing, but some more loss!

Why we forget that there is always a way of negotiation but no, I am not going to accept that I am wrong! Why? Why, we cannot be wrong? Are we God? Are we perfect? Are we the one who never commits mistake? If not then why we always say that, “I am not, he/she is wrong.” Think! Think! Think!

We need to think over it………

Do you know why???

Because, by creating this type of environment we are not only spoiling our life but also making the future of our next generation worst. What are we teaching to them by this way? Are we going to make a peaceful world for them?? Do we teach them the same what we do outside?

Think! Think!

It is not the only loss. There are other side effects of getting angry. We lose or waste a lot of energy in this way, which, if used in a novel cause we can change the world. Do you know that once you get angry you make yourself unable to think for next few minutes?

If your answer is YES, then why you get angry?

It means you are destroying your own performance.

So, if there is no benefit of getting angry, quarrelling or fighting then why???

Think over it. It will help us to make world a better place to live because once we will be able to overcome anger and ego we will be able to make a better place to live for our next generations.

Thank you

See you with a new experience..

till that time....**DASVIDANIYA**